{"id":98911,"date":"2026-09-19T23:18:00","date_gmt":"2026-09-19T23:18:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/gulftimes.ae\/?p=98911"},"modified":"2026-09-19T23:18:00","modified_gmt":"2026-09-19T23:18:00","slug":"why-growing-older-lgbtq-community-in-britain-fears-losing-identity","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gulftimes.ae\/?p=98911","title":{"rendered":"Why growing older LGBTQ+ community in Britain fears losing identity"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\"><b class=\"ssrcss-1xjjfut-BoldText e5tfeyi3\">As a 75-year-old lesbian, Mindy Meleyal has lived through every major milestone in the modern LGBT rights movement, from the start of decriminalisation in 1967 to the first same-sex marriages in 2014.<\/b><\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">But now she says this important part of her identity is frequently overlooked due to her age.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">She&#8217;s part of England&#8217;s older LGBTQ+ community, which a new report suggests often experiences poorer health, more limited finances and greater social isolation than the wider older population.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">The report, from the Centre for Ageing Better, says without specialist support, this growing demographic could be forced &#8220;back into the closet&#8221; when accessing care, warning they may even delay getting the care they need because of concerns about homophobia.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">Adam Porter, a housing development manager from the LGBT Foundation charity, says he regularly meets older members of the community in exactly that situation.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;It&#8217;s very common for people to hide things if they have a carer visiting their home, for example hiding their wedding photos or taking down a trans flag,&#8221; he says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">&#8220;In the case of someone moving into a care environment, that means hiding who they are in their own home, for what could be the rest of their life.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">He says he has been &#8220;horrified&#8221; by some of the stories he has heard meeting older LGBTQ+ people, including some who have had carers offer to &#8220;pray for them&#8221; regarding their sexuality.<\/p>\n<p class=\"ssrcss-1q0x1qg-Paragraph e1jhz7w10\">Porter is part of the team behind Kindred House, a first-of-its-kind LGBTQ+ social housing scheme for over-55s, set to open in Manchester next year.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.co.uk\/news\/articles\/c62e04wkj803o?at_medium=RSS&#038;at_campaign=rss\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As a 75-year-old lesbian, Mindy Meleyal has lived through every major milestone in the modern LGBT&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":98912,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"content-type":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[6501,2764,281,1206,8122,11481,3408,7171],"class_list":["post-98911","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-health","tag-britain","tag-community","tag-fears","tag-growing","tag-identity","tag-lgbtq","tag-losing","tag-older"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v21.0 (Yoast SEO v27.4) - 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