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At least 30 children, most of them British, are feared to have been conceived by IVF treatment in northern Cyprus using the wrong sperm or egg donors.

In each case, the parents suspect they did not get the donors they had selected.

The figure is one of several new findings in a BBC investigation that, earlier this year, uncovered the first seven cases.

All the parents say they carefully selected anonymous donors based on information such as their medical history, appearance, personality, education and hobbies.

However, they have concerns the requested sperm and egg donors may not have been used in their fertility treatments.

Half of the 30 children were born from procedures at one clinic, Dogus IVF Centre.

“It’s absolutely scandalous,” said one of the mothers, Rachel, who recently learned that she received the wrong sperm donor from the clinic.

Three people – Dr Firdevs Uguz Tip, Dr Sevket Alpturk, and a patient co-ordinator Julie Hodson – were involved in the care of many of these patients at Dogus.

Parents suspect these members of staff may have misled them. Firdevs denies any wrongdoing and neither Alpturk or Hodson have responded to our questions.

The BBC has also now learnt that the world’s largest sperm bank, Cryos International, has blacklisted Dogus clinic since 2016.

In northern Cyprus – a territory where European Union laws do not apply and which is only legally recognised by Turkey – clinics are loosely regulated and promise patients low prices, high success rates and a wide choice of sperm and egg donors.

The Turkish-occupied territory is one of the most popular destinations for British people seeking fertility treatment abroad.

We first revealed the emerging scandal in March where a small group of parents appeared to have been misled about donors.

Responding to the allegations, the territory’s Ministry of Health said it had launched an official investigation. However, it has not responded to our repeated requests for more information.

Since then, more parents have contacted us and their stories have concerning similarities.

The majority said the clinics they had used had promised them screened, healthy donors from Western Europe, but that they had become suspicious after their children were born.

Eleven of the 30 children have now taken commercial DNA tests which show they have inherited genetic ancestry from Turkey or surrounding countries.

This suggests their parents’ requested donors were not used.

The majority of the children who have done DNA tests were conceived through IVF between 2012 and 2024 at Dogus clinic.

Families have been left with questions about who their children’s real donors are and their medical histories.

“These reports are deeply troubling,” said Laura Bridgens, founder of the charity Donor Conceived UK. “It’s a fundamental human right for a donor-conceived person to know the truth about their origins.”

In the past few days, the UK’s Foreign Office has also updated its travel advice warning that fertility treatment in northern Cyprus “carries risks” due to a lack of regulation and it encourages those seeking IVF in the territory to conduct thorough research beforehand.



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Screen time for under-fives should be limited to one hour a day, parents told https://gulftimes.ae/?p=83995 https://gulftimes.ae/?p=83995#respond Fri, 27 Mar 2026 06:49:00 +0000 https://gulftimes.ae/screen-time-for-under-fives-should-be-limited-to-one-hour-a-day-parents-told/ Gulf News: UAE's largest news aggregator across the GCC

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Children’s commissioner for England Dame Rachel de Souza and Department for Education scientific adviser Prof Russell Viner have reviewed the latest evidence, finding that long periods of time spent on screens alone can affect children’s sleep and physical activity, which are key to their development.



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Parents of teen who died in 2025 call for more government support https://gulftimes.ae/?p=83739 https://gulftimes.ae/?p=83739#respond Tue, 17 Mar 2026 12:56:00 +0000 https://gulftimes.ae/parents-of-teen-who-died-in-2025-call-for-more-government-support/ Gulf News: UAE's largest news aggregator across the GCC

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Helen and Lee Draper lost their daughter Megan to meningitis in October 2025. She was a student at Bournemouth University.

Her parents later found out she wasn’t vaccinated against the strain she had – Meningitis B.

Megan’s father Lee says it is important for parents to be aware the meningitis vaccinations that their children have protect against all strains.

Helen, Megan’s mother, says she “absolutely implores the government to reconsider this”.

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Ben Cole Edwards, 30, built a career as a trauma coach after posting about being estranged from his mum.



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Tilly’s parents want a few hours respite care at home.



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Parents of seriously ill child tell of ‘exhaustion’ after being refused respite care https://gulftimes.ae/?p=82792 https://gulftimes.ae/?p=82792#respond Fri, 27 Feb 2026 06:17:00 +0000 https://gulftimes.ae/parents-of-seriously-ill-child-tell-of-exhaustion-after-being-refused-respite-care/ Gulf News: UAE's largest news aggregator across the GCC

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Meanwhile, Birmingham Community Healthcare NHS Foundation Trust said: “We continue to provide a package of support for Tilly, including occupational therapy, physiotherapy and speech and language therapy, and remain in regular communication with her parents about her care.”



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‘All Israeli people are with us’, say parents of last dead hostage in Gaza https://gulftimes.ae/?p=80472 https://gulftimes.ae/?p=80472#respond Thu, 04 Dec 2025 21:17:00 +0000 https://gulftimes.ae/all-israeli-people-are-with-us-say-parents-of-last-dead-hostage-in-gaza/ Gulf News: UAE's largest news aggregator across the GCC

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The parents of the last dead hostage in Gaza have spoken to the BBC about their desperate wait for his body to be returned.

Itzik and Talik Gvili insisted the Gaza peace deal could not progress until Hamas handed over the remains of their son Ran, a 24-year-old Israeli police officer also known as Rani.

“We really hope that all people in the world… want to end this situation and go to the second phase, so Hamas must bring Rani home,” his mother Talik said, after Israel confirmed the body of Thai national Suthisak Rintalak had been returned on Wednesday.

He and Ran were among 251 people taken hostage in the Hamas-led attack on Israel on 7 October 2023, when another 1,200 people were killed.

Ran was killed while fighting Hamas gunmen in Kibbutz Alumim, and his body was subsequently taken to Gaza as a hostage, according to the Israel Defense Forces (IDF).

His parents said he was on medical leave with a broken shoulder at the time of the attacks but went to fight after seeing on television what was happening.

“He couldn’t stay at home even though he was injured. He took my car and his uniform… and went to help in the fight against the terrorists,” said his father Itzik.

“He saved Kibbutz Alumim… and he saved Israel, so Israel has to save him now and bring him back home,” he added.

While the couple have been told by Israeli officials that Ran was killed, they say they are still holding onto “a little percent” of hope “that maybe he’s alive, maybe he’s survived”.

“We want closure,” said Talik.

Speaking during a visit to London, Ran’s parents described their pain over the past 26 months, much of which they have spent campaigning for the return of all the living and dead hostages.

Under the first phase of a US-brokered ceasefire deal, which took effect on 10 October, Hamas agreed to return the final 20 living Israeli hostages and the bodies of the 28 dead Israeli and foreign hostages still in Gaza within 72 hours.

All the living hostages were released on 13 October in exchange for 250 Palestinian prisoners and 1,718 detainees from Gaza, but it has taken weeks for the bodies of the dead hostages to be returned, often only one at a time.

“When Hamas bring one of the hostages home we don’t know who it is, maybe it’s Rani, maybe it’s someone else… It’s like roulette. You cannot imagine the fright and the hope and everything. Sometimes it’s not a hostage” at all, said Talik, referring to several sets of remains handed over that have turned out to belong to dead Palestinians.

“My wish is that no mother will feel what I feel in the whole world. We are strong people, but what is inside, you cannot imagine… They stole my child and I can do nothing – just pray and come to visit people and beg for help.”

Talik said she had not slept for a full night since 7 October 2023.

“You feel that you have 5,000 kilos on your chest. We don’t have night. We don’t have day. We have nothing,” she said.

While they are now the only people in Israel waiting for a loved one to be returned from Gaza, they said the support around them has grown.

“All the families are together with us and all Israeli people are with us. It [the support] is bigger than before because all Israeli people are now focused on one thing – bring Ran home and then do the second phase [of the peace deal],” said Talik.

The couple said that after Ran’s return, they hoped for lasting peace and for Hamas to be dismantled.

“We are very proud of Ran. He’s a hero in Israel. Hamas made Ran a hero… We want him back and to try to sleep well and breathe well again.”

Earlier on Thursday, Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu also described Ran as a “hero of Israel”, saying he had “eliminated 14 terrorists and did so with the utmost bravery” before being killed in battle.

“We are determined to bring Ran back for a proper Jewish burial and we will spare no effort to do so,” he vowed.

Israel responded to the 7 October 2023 attack by launching a military campaign in Gaza, during which more than 70,120 people have been killed, according to the territory’s Hamas-run health ministry.



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Parents are being urged to get their children vaccinated against flu over half-term as the NHS warned of rising cases of the disease.

There is an early flu season, health officials say, and the latest data for England showed cases and hospitalisations were increasing.

NHS England said many school children will have already received the vaccine at school but there are still options for those who have not, including pop-up clinics.

GP surgeries can give flu vaccines to school-aged children and those with certain health conditions, as well as two to three year olds, while preschoolers can also be taken to pharmacies for the vaccine.

Most children are offered the vaccine in a nasal spray rather than an injection.

NHS England’s weekly flu and Covid surveillance report said there was increased flu activity “particularly among children”.

Duncan Burton, chief nursing officer for England, said it was concerning that the flu had hit early this year and the increase among children was “worrying”.

“Flu can spread like wildfire across schools and can make children really unwell,” he said.

“The virus changes each year, so vaccination remains the best way to shield your child from getting seriously ill.”

He urged parents to make sure they had opted their child in for an in-school vaccine or find their nearest clinic.

Pop-up clinics were being held in places like bowling alleys and fire stations, Mr Burton told BBC Radio 4’s Today programme, adding that the vaccine was “quick, easy and safe”.

Dr Fari Ahmad told BBC Breakfast that while she was seeing cases, “I don’t think we’ve quite hit the peak yet”.

“With flu, this is a war we have every year. Flu is unpredictable, it still kills people and every year we try to get enough people vaccinated so that when the big surge comes we are not decimated,” she said.

Dr Ahmad said that getting enough school-age children vaccinated meant that it made that surge better, “because they are spreaders”.

“It will be great for the kids individually but it will also be better for all of us,” she said.

NHS England said more than 10 million vaccines have already been delivered in the latest campaign, including to almost 1.5 million school-aged children and more than 300,000 eligible two and three year olds.

Free vaccines are available to those older than 65, with certain long-term health conditions, are pregnant, live in a care home, the main carer for an older or disabled person or live with someone who has a weakened immune system.



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Could I have saved my parents’ lives if I’d been taught CPR? https://gulftimes.ae/?p=76710 https://gulftimes.ae/?p=76710#respond Tue, 14 Oct 2025 05:23:00 +0000 https://gulftimes.ae/could-i-have-saved-my-parents-lives-if-id-been-taught-cpr/ Gulf News: UAE's largest news aggregator across the GCC

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BBC A teenage boy smiles into the camera while sitting in a school classroom. He is wearing a black school uniform with purple trim.BBC

Cameron McGerr believes CPR should be taught in all schools

Cameron McGerr should have been with his parents to celebrate their 30th wedding anniversary last month.

Instead, Lynne and Kevin McGerr’s 16-year-old son stood in front of MSPs in the Scottish Parliament and revealed he had lost both to heart conditions.

He believes he might have been able to help at least one of his parents in their moment of crisis if he had been taught life-saving CPR skills at a younger age.

Having already persuaded his school in Inverclyde to introduce the first aid training, he now wants to see it introduced to schools across Scotland.

Cameron’s dad Kevin died from a cardiac arrest in February this year. It came three years after Lynne suffered a fatal heart attack.

The couple had been married since 30 September 1995.

“After my dad died I kind of thought maybe I should do something about this,” said Cameron, a pupil at Clydeview Academy in Gourock.

“The first time I kind of thought it was bad luck but the second time I thought ‘well I was 15, I really should have been able to know what to do’.”

McGerr Family A newly wed couple just after their marriage, sitting smiling in the back of a car. The bride is wearing a white wedding dress and has strawberry blonde hair - the groom is wearing a suit and has short dark hair.McGerr Family

Lynne and Kevin McGerr on their wedding day in 1995

Now Cameron and his classmates are learning how to give CPR – a potentially life-saving treatment using chest compressions to restart a person’s heartbeat.

He hopes more schools across Scotland will soon do the same and adopt his campaign, which is called Pulse of Life.

“It could be your mum, it could be your dad, it could be your sister or it could be a friend, neighbour, stranger,” said Cameron, who now lives with his aunt.

“The truth is it can happen to anyone at any time. I think that’s what a lot of people don’t realise, and I think that’s why everyone needs to be fully equipped to be able to step in and do it.”

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Cameron addressed the Scottish Parliament in September

When Cameron spoke to MSPs at Holyrood last month, he estimated that when his dad collapsed he lost about two and a half minutes of time panicking about what to do.

He said: “I believe that if I had known CPR, I would have been able to save my dad. I would have been more confident while performing CPR, worrying less as his ribs broke under the force of my hands.

“I would not have had to wait for the 999 operator to instruct me in what to do. In my panic, I lost probably two and a half minutes, which instantly decreased his chance of survival by 25%.”

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Cameron’s head teacher Craig Gibson said the teenager had shown outstanding resilience after the deaths of his parents.

British Heart Foundation figures suggest around 3,800 people experience a cardiac arrest out of hospital in Scotland each year – with a survival rate of one in 10.

Health groups and medical charities believe that number could improve if more people felt confident about performing CPR, and were able to take action quickly.

“I’m not doing it for me and I’m not doing it to try and prove the point – I’m doing it because I know it will make a difference” says Cameron of the campaign.

Clydeview pupils and staff have responded with enthusiasm to the CPR lessons, saying it has given them confidence about performing it if needed.

Craig Gibson, the headteacher at Clydeview, told BBC Scotland News that Cameron had shown “outstanding resilience in the face of such tragedy” over the past three years.

“Cameron and I have met a number of times and he’s spoken to me quite openly about the impact of the loss that’s had on him, but more importantly the changes that he would like to make,” says Craig.

The school is hopeful all current S1 pupils will be taught CPR by the end of the current academic year. The teaching model will then be shared with other secondary schools throughout the region.

However, Cameron has already seen his campaign go further afield, leading to his appearance at the Scottish Parliament.

It came on the day of what would have been his parents’ wedding anniversary.

Despite his nerves, he movingly recalled waking up to his dad screaming, unsure of what to do after his mum’s heart attack.

“I wonder whether, if I had been given CPR training, I would have been able to step in and make a difference.

“However, I cannot live life wondering ‘what if?’. I need to live to make a difference for other people who might encounter the same problem.”

Education Secretary Jenny Gilruth has now written to Cameron offering to meet him.

A Scottish government spokesperson said it would continue to work with partners to make sure pupils have the opportunity to learn CPR, with many schools already doing so.

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Cameron thinks his parents would be proud of the campaign he has launched in their memory

However far his campaign goes, and whatever difference it makes, Cameron is sure of one thing – that his parents would be proud of what he’s doing.

“I think they’d be a bit, not caught off guard, but a bit shocked because here’s this shy boy that didn’t like confrontation, didn’t like public speaking, who just went and addressed the country’s parliament.

“They would be immensely proud, and I knew that even before I’d done this.

“They would always be proud, no matter what, and I think that’s what keeps me going.”



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Elissa says constipation needs to be screened for in every area of healthcare

A mother who feared her two-year-old son’s untreated constipation could have killed him is calling for access to children’s continence services to be made a national priority.

Elissa Novak said Ivan was constantly vomiting, losing weight and in severe pain when it was at its worst, and a doctor said 2kg of his 10kg (22lb) body weight was estimated to be stool.

The number of children aged up to 16 admitted to English hospitals suffering with constipation, among other symptoms, is at a 10-year high, with more than 44,000 admissions in 2023-24, according to NHS figures.

Children are being failed by the absence of dedicated bladder and bowel services in some parts of the country, an expert said.

About 1.5 million children in the UK suffer with constipation, according to the charity Bladder and Bowel UK.

As many children returned to school this week, charities have told the BBC they are seeing a spike in calls to their helplines.

“It’s a huge problem and many healthcare professionals don’t consider it a serious issue in children,” said Davina Richardson, a children’s specialist nurse with the charity.

“Discussing wee and poo is very un-British. It’s not something that we as a culture do.”

Elissa said Ivan, who is now aged five, had been “completely robbed of his toddler years” due to health issues resulting from constipation.

He was admitted to hospital 25 times in one six-month period in 2022 for emergency treatment.

“It was horrific,” Elissa said. “He was so frail he couldn’t lift himself up or do anything.

“He was in pain all the time and either screaming or just lying there because he was too weak.”

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Ivan became severely underweight as a result of constipation

Elissa, 35, from Nuneaton, Warwickshire, said she had constantly gone to her GP to try to get help and answers.

At that time in Warwickshire, there was no bowel or bladder community service, which meant they were going to A&E up to four times a week.

It was only when things got to a crisis point that Elissa was told constipation was causing Ivan’s pain.

She thinks he would have died had there been any further delay in treating it.

Elissa was told Ivan’s entire colon was impacted, which had pushed up into his lung cavity and compromised his lungs.

‘Signs missed’

His stomach was squashed. All of his organs were being pushed out of the way,” Elissa said.

“We were in A&E for up to 12 hours at a time… just waiting for an enema of all things.

“It was a very horrible time. It was so traumatic for everybody.”

Ivan has two genetic syndromes which affect his cognitive functions.

Elissa thinks this played a part in the signs being missed and constipation not being diagnosed sooner.

“It was seen as ‘that’s just what disabled children are like’. We did actually have one consultant who said ‘disabled children just scream’,” Elissa said.

“It wasn’t looked into properly, it wasn’t taken seriously until he was really at crisis point. His signs of pain weren’t recognised. It was just a perfect storm really.”

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Ivan’s stomach became extremely swollen due to impacted stools

Ivan now has a care package so his constipation can be managed at home with laxatives and daily bowel wash outs.

“It is a huge part of his life and a huge part of his day. He still suffers pain but it’s so much better,” his mother said.

Elissa is campaigning for better bladder and bowel care services across the country.

“People are falling through the cracks,” she said.

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Ivan has laxatives and daily bowel irrigations to manage his constipation

Tips for parents and carers

Here are some of the ways to prevent a child from becoming constipated:

  • Ensure your child’s diet includes plenty of fruit and vegetables
  • Make sure children are drinking enough water-based drinks daily – dehydration can make constipation more likely or worse
  • A good toilet position is also helpful. Children need their bottom and the backs of their thighs well supported. Feet need to be flat on a firm surface with knees slightly higher than hips, as that helps relax the pelvic floor

Source: Bladder and Bowel UK

Brenda Cheer, a paediatric specialist continence nurse with children’s bowel and bladder charity Eric, said children’s constipation was on the rise for a number of reasons, including delayed potty training and today’s generation of children spending more time in childcare.

She said children were being failed in areas where there was no dedicated children’s continence service.

“There’s huge disparity of those services,” she said.

“Where is the parent supposed to go? How are they supposed to get the help they need? How is a family supposed to access support if there is no children’s bladder and bowel nurse?”

Constipation can be treated in the community and should not require a hospital admission, but is not being recognised, Ms Cheer added.

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Holly described feeling “broken” as a parent at not being able to get Ayda help

Holly Brennan told the BBC her daughter Ayda had suffered with chronic constipation for three years and she had been in “turmoil” at the lack of help.

It started when Ayda got a virus when she was two years old and spiralled from there, Holly said.

The 31-year-old described going to her GP six times and being prescribed laxatives to treat it – but not being given any guidance on how to use them, and said she had been told her daughter would grow out of it.

When it was at its worst, Ayda, now five, would have up to 15 accidents a day.

Holly, from Clevedon, Bristol, said: “It was three years of hell. She very much didn’t grow out of it.

“We didn’t want to go out for day trips because you wouldn’t know where the toilet would be and she was constantly having accidents.

“It was just complete stress and caused arguments between my husband and I [about] how to deal with it. It upset her [Ayda] and you try not to get cross with them but it’s just frustration and it just affects everything.”

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Holly said it was really upsetting not being able to get help for Ayda’s constipation

Sometimes it would take Ayda a week to go to the toilet because she associated it with pain, her mum explained.

“It was a vicious circle. It was just complete turmoil… something that everyone just used to say she would grow out of or ‘it’s a phase’ or ‘she just needs to learn’,” Holly added.

“Our life literally revolved around the toilet for three years.”

Holly was not referred for further treatment for Ayda or told about children’s continence services that could help.

She said it felt like “the blind leading the blind” with several doctors unable to advise her and she had reached a dead end.

It was only when she was told about the charity Eric that things started to get better.

“There was finally an answer on how to help her,” Holly added. “It [the website] described my child.”

Ayda is now off laxatives and able to control her bowels.

“I’m very proud of her and how she’s coped. She’s taken it all in her stride,” Holly said.

A Department of Health and Social Care spokesperson said it is committed to ensuring children get the right care and support when they need it for conditions such as constipation.

In a statement, it said: “As part of our 10-year health plan, neighbourhood health services will bring together teams of professionals closer to people’s home to provide comprehensive community care.

“We will also strengthen health visiting services so all families have access to high-quality, personalised support.”

Jodie Gosling, MP for Nuneaton and who chairs the all-party parliamentary group for bladder and bowel continence care, said constipation had fallen low on the list of priorities facing local council and integrated care boards.

She said children’s continence care “has been a silent casualty of chronic underfunding and reactive healthcare”.

“This leads to a postcode lottery, where even high-need areas fail to address issues like constipation adequately.”



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